Over a decade ago, I found myself in a relationship that would change me forever. At the time, I didn’t know the word narcissist  in the way I understand it now. What I knew was that I had met someone who seemed kind, friendly, and deeply wounded by his past. He spoke of being a victim of his previous relationship. He appeared generous, service-oriented, and eager to build something meaningful in the world. We started as friends. He was launching a new business and asked for